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DC Dating Conference charity benefit – Feb 11
Have you been given a series of seemingly conflicting pieces of advice when it comes to dating? Perhaps you have been told that things will just happen or that you have to play games to be successful with the opposite sex. Or you have gotten the same worn out advice that you should “be yourself” [...]

Text Message Mastery: Free webinar Tuesday November 29
Have you ever had a great initial meeting with someone but were never able to meet up with them later? Or maybe you do meet up for a date but you can’t get the same sexual chemistry and attraction that you had the first time you met. What if you could learn to bridge the [...]

Text Messaging for dating: 7 tips to be playful and engaging
The following article about text messages comes from an excerpt from my book Become That Guy: Become Irresistibly Attractive and also covers principles that are demonstrated in my field reports and in my seminar on text messaging. Why should you use text messages? Since it can often be hard to reach someone on the phone, [...]

What do women want? It’s not that different from what men want
If you listen enough to the media and some people Society men and women are very different in how they think and what they look for. While books like Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus make some useful points, oftentimes our media and individuals focus on the differences between men and women more [...]

3 Reasons Why You Get and Stay “Stuck”
Why do people stay stuck in spite of a stated desire to achieve a certain goal? Here are a few reasons I have found when people keep getting stuck on the same sticking points. These reasons apply not just to relationships with women, but to all kinds of bad habits or unproductive behaviors and beliefs. [...]
Pickup Artist Story: Speed Dating Leads to a Speedy Seduction
This is a story about how I picked up a woman from a Speed Dating event in May 2010. I talked to her in person for about 20 minutes, continued the conversation by text message and had her meet me at my place later that night. While these stories are fun, they are also meant [...]

Meet women on the dance floor – even if you can’t dance
This article comes from an answer to a question I got from one of my coaching clients requesting a road map on how to pickup a woman on the dance floor and lead her toward being with you. Here is my response, also some of the same moves are demonstrated in my story: The Redhead [...]
