May 19, 2012

Be Observant – Demonstrate Awareness of her Reality

One key to building rapport and to leading a social interaction is the ability to demonstrate authority and understanding of what is real in her world. By authority I don’t mean the kind of authority that involves dictating what someone can and cannot do. The kind of authority I mean is to demonstrate understanding and [...]

Don’t put women on a pedestal when first meeting them

One thing that men do and especially those who haven’t had as much success with women – is they tend to put a woman on a pedestal based on their attraction to her physical appearance. This crush gets compounded if a guy mistakes polite friendliness for sexual interest, without ever getting to know who she [...]

If she is interested … keep going!

One mistake I have seen many men make as they start learning to become more confident with women is that they make some progress with a woman and generate some interest and then stop the conversation when she was interested in continuing it.  I’ve heard guys express a mindset that sounds similar to an investor [...]

Breaking up is hard to do: how to learn from past relationships and move on

One thing that is important before you can move forward in your life is to make sure that you are ok with what has happened in the past. Sometimes the best way we know how to deal with emotionally hurtful situations is to move on without reflecting upon the past. However if you find yourself [...]

Tools ‹ Become That Guy — WordPress

I want to announce my FREE weekend seminar workshop coming up the weekend of July 18 and 19th. I will cover many of tools, tactics and techniques that I have learned over the last 10 years from my training in Neuro Linguistic Programming, hypnosis, seduction, and sales. PM me as soon as you can to [...]

A structured way to become "that" guy

Have you ever wanted to be the kind of guy who feels that he has the ability to get what he wants, out of life?  The kind of guy who is cool, calm, collected, self-assured.  But, how do you get there?  Are some guys just born with it, or were they fortunate enough to learn [...]

Pickup Stories: Redhead Model Same Night Sex That Became a Long Term Relationship

This story is about how I met a woman and took her home with me from a bar 15 minutes later while she was out with her friends celebrating her going away party. This ended up turning into a pretty intense 7 month relationship in spite of the timing of her going to New York [...]

Pickup Story: Cute blonde from my hometown, same night and FWB

This is another same night seduction that appears to be going the friends-with-benefits route right now. I met up with Stronghold at McFadden’s in DC for April birthday night in which anyone born in April drinks free. Unfortunately I was not born in April but it was still fun. I spent some time trying to [...]