May 27, 2018

10 Steps to be like James Bond

This interesting article includes 10 steps to becoming that guy who is like James Bond.

Develop a Powerful frame of mind for meeting women

Develop an Unstoppable, Powerful Frame of Mind One question I have been asked is how do I create the frame of mind that makes meeting and rapidly sexually escalating with women something that just comes naturally?  Here are a few key points about the kinds of beliefs and understandings that once internalized will provide you […]

Weekend bootcamp with Vince Kelvin Feb 5 – 6

Weekend Seminar Bootcamp I will be co-training a weekend day game seminar/bootcamp February 4 -6 in Washington, DC area that will be sent to attendees. Signup here to take advantage of the early signup discount .  Possible guest co-trainers may include some of the other trainers from the Global PUA Conference in Washington, DC Jan […]

3 Reasons Why You Get and Stay “Stuck”

Why do people stay stuck in spite of a stated desire to achieve a certain goal? Here are a few reasons I have found when people keep getting stuck on the same sticking points. These reasons apply not just to relationships with women, but to all kinds of bad habits or unproductive behaviors and beliefs. […]

Are you waiting to be "good" with women before Attempting to Meet Any?

One common concern I have gotten from guys who are working to have more power and choice in their interactions with women is that they don’t think they are “ready” to meet women yet. Or they keep opening or attempting to learn “the skills” without continuing to escalate the interaction toward what they want. This […]

Are you Playing to Win or to not lose?

“Glance at what you might have to lose, but focus on what you want to win.” This quote by the U.S. General George Patton during World War II was a response to his take on the British General Montgomery. Montgomery was so afraid to lose that he did not take the steps necessary to win. […]

Bad experience bugging you: reframe it to turn it upside down

Got a bad experience from the past that is still bugging you?  How about this scenario: you approach a woman and she responds to your witty line with a rude back turn where she just ignores you.  Depending on your frame of mind there are many different ways you could choose to respond to this.  […]

Approach Anxiety? 4 Tips on how to approach with Confidence

One thing I think helped me when I first discovered the pickup artist scene was that I had a background in speech and debate from high school.  I did forensics in high school and college, Extemporaneous speech, Original Oratory and Impromptu.  By my Senior year of high school I would get a make out with […]

Be Honest, what do you want? – What are your options with women?

As a single guy active in the dating scene I have learned over the years that there are many options to traditional dating and oftentimes what passes for conventional wisdom just doesn’t work at all.  However as a coach I often see men struggle to pick between what they want to do and what they […]