May 27, 2018

It’s a game of give and take

  It’s a game of give and take – give someone the opportunity to give so they can get to like you Perhaps you have heard the song “You Can’t Hurry Love”  originally by The Supremes.  “It’s a game of give and take.” I wondered. A dilemma in dating and in life is that often […]

Women like men who are already with women: 4 reasons why

  Q: I’m a single guy in his late 20s. Recently I have been having great success using what I learned from you to generate all kinds of interest with women and have an abundant sex life with women I’m really attracted to.  However I’m having fun right now just being single and am not […]

Why Traditional Dating is inauthentic

There are many cultural expectations that contribute to how we think we are supposed to act when it comes to meeting someone of the opposite sex. However traditional dating as a way for men and women to connect with each other puts people in the position of having to be inauthentic.   What do we […]

No Strings Attached: How to Have Friends With Benefits Relationships

One question I have often been asked is how to develop “no strings attached”  or “friends with benefits” relationships and how to maintain them over time. Oftentimes it is hard to keep the relationship primarily sexual without one or both parties (or more in some cases) getting emotionally involved. Often it turns into a sexually […]

What do women want? It’s not that different from what men want

If you listen enough to the media and some people Society men and women are very different in how they think and what they look for. While books like Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus make some useful points, oftentimes our media and individuals focus on the differences between men and women more […]

Breaking up is hard to do: how to learn from past relationships and move on

One thing that is important before you can move forward in your life is to make sure that you are ok with what has happened in the past. Sometimes the best way we know how to deal with emotionally hurtful situations is to move on without reflecting upon the past. However if you find yourself […]