Here is a link to a recording of Michael Hurst as a guest on the Romeo Divine Radio Show last week. It starts a little slow the first minute or so and then really gets rolling after the first minute once I got situated with the microphone. I’ll also be appearing on his TV show this Thursday afternoon out in Fairfax.

conflicting pieces of advice when it comes to

 dating? 

Perhaps you have been told that things will just happen or that you have to play games to be successful with the opposite sex.

Or you have gotten the same worn out advice that you should “be yourself” yet it doesn’t help you to get what you want. It can be confusing, especially if there is no step by step process, no road map to guide you. 

Are you tired of everyone talking about Valentine’s Day? There are cards, flowers, your Mom asking you when you’ll every meet someone and bring them home to introduce them? 

So how about doing something different this Valentine’s Day weekend in DC?

Learn how to Be Irresistibly Attractive! 

The 2012 DC Dating Conference by Michael Hurst is intended to give you practical tools and techniques that you can use to get results TONIGHT!  You will learn how to act, talk, and move, so that you will become naturally attractive to the person you desire. 

In addition to making great strides in your dating life, an added benefit is that the procedes of this course will be donated to a good cause, for Crohn’s and Colitis research and awareness. 

In this seminar (for both men and women) you will learn how to: 

    ·     Instantly establish an almost “magical” level of openness and trust without saying a word.  Establish a strong connection with someone within minutes. 

·   Be confident and fun anytime you want to meet someone you are attracted to. Be able to turn on the charm like flipping a switch. 

·    Walk sexy, talk sexy, even burp sexy (just kidding about the last one) by conditioning yourself through stretches and exercises that develop you posture and graceful body movement. Notice the results immediately as you see how others now respond to your presence.

·     Avoid some of the most common fashion mistakes as well as learn some tips for how to dress, don’t let your clothes hold you back!  

·      Turn the same old small talk conversations like “what do you do?” and “where are you from?” into stories that create a spontaneous and flirty conversation using improv techniques. Avoid getting stuck in boring interview-style conversations that leave you grasping for something interesting to say.

·       Answer common questions like “where are you from?” and “what do you do?” in a way where you create a spontaneous, fun conversation. Avoid getting stuck in boring interview-style conversations that leave you running out of things to say.

·    Be funny, develop your wit and charm with the input of experienced comedians. Learn how you can make your own life experiences into fun and interesting stories. 

·       When to call, what to do and what to say it as you call and text to set up dates – Turn a promising first meeting in person or from online into another fun and exciting meeting in person.

Signup today for the DC Dating Conference through EventBrite 

 Here is another experience from one of my past attendees. 

Here are some more things you will learn in this DC Dating Seminar.

·      Set and manage expectations so that you can have the types of relationships you want while being fair to the other person.  

·    Learn how to be use comedy and playful role-plays to build attraction. Utilize her responses to build up the conversation and keep it fresh and fun. 

·      What men and women REALLY want through open discussion. What you learn may really surprise you.

·       Six conversational themes that will help you smoothly and playfully introduce edgy  topics to the conversation in such a way that they say “I can’t believe I am talking about this!”

·     Use your language to make a conversation or text messages generate chemistry and romantic tension.  

·       A quick technique to get “out of your own head” and become fully present so you can spontaneously and intuitively read people

·       How to create new possibilities for pleasure and intimacy by identifying and freeing yourself from fear, guilt or shame that you may have been holding you back without you even realizing it.

You will also learn:

·       How taking away the pressure and expectation of commitment can actually open up new possibilities for creating intimacy.

•   Develop your voice so that it is smooth, sexy and captivating through specific drills and exercises.

•   How to establish and defend your personal boundaries. Don’t get taken for granted or as a weak pushover.

·       Understand how the meaning you attach to your past experiences can either limit or open up new possibilities. Break free of what was holding you back and put the past in the past so you have more choice to seek what you really want. 

·       Attract others to you like a magnet by actively being that person who conveys that they already have a happy fulfilling life. 

•   “How not to lose a guy/ girl in 10 days” – some tips on how to maintain a healthy relationship, don’t blow or sabotage another promising opportunity.

•   How to keep the “spark” so that you continue to sustain an interesting and dynamic relationship over time.  

·       Attract others to you like a magnet when you Become that Guy or Girl who is fully present and irresistibly attractive, has self-acceptance and conveys an inviting acceptance of others.

·       Free yourself from where you think a relationship with someone “should” go and instead be present and enjoy the moment.

Why Should I pay money to learn?

If you met even one person who rocked your world, would it be worth it? What if you were to consider the value of your time that you can never get back. Worse yet it is a gamble because it’s not guaranteed that you will get what you want. I’ve seen it happen all the time, for more of my clients than I can count. They save hundreds of dollars each month while avoiding the hassle and heart ache of dating, and they meet one amazing woman after another…  all in the natural flow of their daily life. 

Men, how much money have you spent going out on dates – THIS MONTH ALONE – and still never really meeting a woman that you’re totally into?  Women, how many times have you felt the pressure of expectations from a date and the drama that sometimes goes with bruised egos and hurt feelings?  It is worth it?

As a certain former governor would say

You betcha!

It’s for a good cause

Some weekend seminars are priced as high as $3,000, even a one day and night class can cost hundreds of dollars, however Michael wants to get his message out there in a way that anyone can afford to pay. So he is offering this at as a charity benefit for a special cause right that is near to his own heart or should we say gut on the eve of Valentine’s Day.

For over 10 years Michael struggled with Ulcerative Colitis, with symptoms that ranged from unpleasant and embarrassing to even being hospitalized a few times. However after being on the verge of surgery a year ago, he has now recovered and considers himself CURED, something that is not yet recognized by most doctors as possible in the field after combining several treatment options. Now he is healthy and wants to further the cause of awareness and the search for effective treatment options. So he is offering this seminar for charitable donations, a minimum donation of $20. All proceeds after expenses will be donated to charities such as the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation of America*.

So sign up today for the DC Dating Conference, space is limited for this unique opportunity. Location will be in NW DC in the Adams Morgan / U Street NW area and will be sent to attendees closer to the event date. 

(*Note: Neither Michael nor this event is directly affiliated with or a representative of the organization.)

About Michael

Michael Hurst is a dating consultant in Washington, DC, author and speaker.  Your Executive coach for your dating life.   Michael first discovered the men’s dating education Community or Pickup Artist Community (PUA) back in 1999 and has been professionally coaching mostly men and some women for the last couple of years. Michael has lead over 30 seminar workshops in the last few years. He is regarded as one of the foremost experts in recognizing and rapidly increasing sexual attraction and fostering relationships that develop organically. He has been a speaker at several national dating conferences across the U.S.  Recently Michael Hurst was as a guest on the Jellyvision show, a comedy talk show in the Washington, DC area.

Michael is the author of the book “Become That Guy:  Become Irresistibly Attractive” a comprehensive resource toward dating and self-development for men. When you become that guy who is irresistibly attractive you can be powerfully direct and authentic, secure that you can have the kinds of relationships that you really want. As he wrote the book and got feedback from women, Michael realized that most of the concepts that he teaches to men also were helpful to women and has since started coaching some women as well as men. A book for women is forthcoming in the next year.

Michael blends his personal experience and experience coaching others with almost 10 years of experience in public speaking, sales and marketing, Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) and Handwriting Analysis. Go to his website http://www.becomethatguy.com for more information about his coaching, seminars and to read free articles and field reports of his adventures. 

Guest Teachers: 
* A dance teacher, pilates or yoga instructor teaching both men & women how to walk sexy and carry yourself in a confident manner with good posture. Ladies feel free to bring your heels with you or just practice in your sneakers. (about 10 min.)
* Comedians and improve instructors will be talking about how to use comedy to break the ice in a relationship (about 10 min.) 

* Fashion tips from a fashion expert for being professional, casual and attractive. 

This is a guest article by Elliott Gordon of Authentic Online Dating Tips For Men. 

Have you ever noticed that many of the things women complain about in men the exact things that cause them to be attracted to men?

In college I had a female friend Amy who would complain all about her boyfriend to me.  He was a rude, condescending jerk.  It frustrated me so much.  If the guy was such a douche, why didn’t she just leave him?  Ironically, when I asked for her own dating tips for men, she didn’t say “be a jerk like my asshole boyfriend.”  She told me same things my mother told me: hold the door open for her and buy her flowers.

Huh?  Why do women say they want one thing, and then go for another?  This led me to an interesting realization:

Watch for what women actually go for rather than what they say they go for. 

Perhaps Amy didn’t always want to admit that women are attracted to men who are a challenge, but Irina Aleksander of the New York Observer does.

In her article she discusses the “homme fatale,” a seduction archetype, (kind of like Robert Greene’s Art of Seduction) that women fall hard for.  The homme fatale appears in the article as kind, sensitive nice guy that ends up breaking her heart. One woman quoted in the article states: “he seemed too nice and sensitive to treat me the way that he did.”

While her article is geared toward women, warning them to “beware” the homme fatale, she ironically ends up giving a lot of dating tips for men who are not the stereotypical “ladies man” on how to attract women.

The takeaway for men:  Oftentimes the very things that women complain about are the exact things you should be doing to attract women.

1.) Katherine, a woman Aleksander features in the article, says that one of the hommes fatalles she dated was “intelligent and not too forward, and always surrounded by beautiful women.”

Aleksander goes on to say that “Katherine admits she found [this] intriguing.”

DATING TIP FOR MEN #1:  Women are attracted to men who are surrounded by other women.  This desire falls under the universal principle that people want what others have. 

2.) Aleksander also quotes Jessica Pressler, a senior editor of New York magazine.  “Aaron Rose is not particularly attractive, but he figures out that he can get the pretty girls simply by not acting as if they were special, and girls are intrigued by that.”

DATING TIP FOR MEN #2:  Women are attracted to men who are not attracted to them because they are a challenge.  (You may want to check out this article on my blog, Authentic Online Dating Tips For Men, for more insight on this.)

Male dating coaches are not the only ones expounding these facts.  All of the quotations in Irina Aleksander’s article come from women.

And yet, most women don’t want you to know about these methods that les hommes fatalles use to seduce them.

Hence why she tells women to “beware” of these guys.

I don’t know if the men featured in her article acted with integrity or not.  What I do know is this:

Clearly these men triggered a powerful emotional response.  But does this mean that in order to attract women you have to be a jerk like the homme fatale?

When I was a client of Michael Hurst two years ago, he taught me all about how to be honest, upfront and authentic with women, while at the same time being able to become that guy who is a seductive challenge. One unique aspect was that women were actively involved in his seminars and when going out to meet women.  We got highly effective dating tips for men with feedback from women.

The tips above are similar to concepts that Michael Hurst teaches in his coaching program and in his book Become That Guy: Become Irresistibly Attractive.

You see results when you work with Michael.  I witnessed him working with some guys who were – let’s be honest- pretty hard cases (still virgins in their 20s).  By the end of his program they were getting laid and had found great women for relationships.  Subscribe to his email list to find out more.

Or maybe you do meet up for a date but you can’t get the same sexual chemistry and attraction that you had the first time you met.

What if you could learn to bridge the gap and build such levels of chemistry and attraction that she comes over to your house or invites you to hers and skip any kind of formal dating because it’s already on! For those of you who have attended my other seminars and read my stories this is a classic review and extension of how I use text messages to rapidly build upon and bridge initial attraction until we can meet again.  Oftentimes this is the same night I met them, and when we do it is no longer a question of if, only when. Now, learn how to do this yourself and develop your own text message style.

At the Text Game webinar you will learn how to:

• Actively Screen and test (qualify) for what you want during the initial meeting. Don’t hold back thinking it gets easier if you wait to delay introducing sex to the interaction. • Use text messages to follow-up with her in such a way that you continue the conversation rather than have an abrupt break before calling or texting her in the future. • Learn how to smoothly and playfully introduce sex to the conversation within the first few minutes of meeting her, so that she says “I can’t believe I’m talking about this even though I just met you.” • Plant the seeds for future events during the initial meeting and through text messages. Make it feel like you already know each other really well and have already had many great experiences together before you have met each other (again). • Demonstrate that you are actively speaking the same  language to her. A few simple tips will allow you to lead and encourage her to be more sexual with her text messages. • Use text message as a way to increase the likelihood that she will answer your call or meet you in person. • Continue the conversation so that she comes over to your house that night, while the chemistry is still there rather than trying to wait for another day. • Build such chemistry between the two of you that someone you met online is willing to make the first date your bedroom or if you’re shy in your living room .   Register now for the Text Message webinarto reserve your place, space is limited for this FREE webinar due to software constraints and is also being promoted through other lists and groups so reserve your spot now!

Here’s past attendees are saying about Michael” Become That Guy Text Message seminar / Text Message webinar 

Click here to: Register for Text Message webinar 

to reserve your place and get the login info for the webinar, space is limited for this FREE webinar  so reserve your spot now!

Why should you use text messages?

Since it can often be hard to reach someone on the phone, many women now prefer to keep in touch using text messages.  They are a good way to keep you fresh in her mind so she is more likely to answer a phone call. It is a good idea to call her phone or have her call your phone when you first get her number so that she can record it into her phone.  Another option is to send a text right away, often giving her a cute nickname. “Hey glitter girl, I’ll catch you later.” Here are some of my stories and other resources to use text messages to rapidly build attraction.

Some more advantages of text messages are that they can be be a way to continue to build upon the momentum you already have and arrange to meet up with her later that first night if you are still out, especially since neither you nor her will be available to talk since you are around other people and in loud bars that often have spotty cell phone reception.  Text messages allow her to respond discretely while talking to others and when she has a moment while out at work, or even on a date with another guy.

Here are some tips for text messaging:  

1)    Be bold, with a challenging and playful attitude . This can include being cocky/ funny, qualify her in part by being bold and sexually forward. Find out what about her is attractive personally besides being physically attractive. Some assumptions you can use are that “you are the prize,” in a way that borders on arrogance but in a fun, playful way. And that it’s always on and she wants you.  Deliberately misinterpret some things she says in either a sexual way or a way in which she wants you, just like every other woman does.

2)    Don’t be needy – Give information to get information.

Instead of asking what are you doing? Share something funny about what you are doing or what she could be doing.  “Making dinner from free gourmet cheese samples at Whole Foods, how about you?“ Or even a simple “now at Lucky Bar with the rest of my crew, still at Public Bar?”

3)    Be conversational, keep texts brief, especially the first few. Messages that are too long might seem like too much of an investment of time early on from her perspective. Some goals to aim for include sparking a conversation that is balanced, engaging and casual.

4)    Use emoticons with jokes, or comments that you intend to be funny, especially those with sarcasm or an ambiguous meaning. While they can be used the wrong way or overused to where they are obnoxious. Common emoticons like LOL, or a creative one that begs the question as to what it is can be used to make sure that your comments are taken as you intend them to be. A misinterpreted text can seriously break rapport in your text conversation.

5)    Use and build on what she gives you, repeat it back and build upon it similar to active listening or improv.  This establishes rapport and that you’re listening to her.  It also makes it more likely that she will go along with what you are saying. Everytime she agrees and participates with what you are saying, feed it back to her and push things farther.  For example she says I love bubble bath massages, so you say, ah, yes and it’s not necessary for you to feel that warmth spreading through your body now …

6)    “Challenge her to be more sexual. This can turn into some pretty hardcore  dirty talk or “sexting.”  By building excitement while liberally using softening words and playful challenges you can turn the conversation in a sexual direction quickly and powerfully without being perceived as being creepy.  This way by the time you meet in person you will have already smoothed the way to get physical.

Conclusion and how to learn more

Text Messages can be used to reinforce and build upon your initial connection meeting in place of time spent on the phone or in person. Text messages are more casual and require less of an investment of time and psychological energy for either you or her.   However by the time you meet in person after many text messages and maybe a phone call, you might just have her meet you at your place or go to hers without any prolonged “date.”

For more examples of how I apply these and other principles see my field reports from my free booklet or ebook or check out my next available live seminar on text messages or webinar on text messages where I review and expand upon my story from first meeting at a speed dating event, continued by text and then to her meeting me back at my place in the middle of the night.

It’s a game of give and take – give someone the opportunity to give so they can get to like you

Perhaps you have heard the song “You Can’t Hurry Love”  originally by The Supremes.  “It’s a game of give and take.” I wondered.

A dilemma in dating and in life is that often people find themselves in imbalanced relationships. They think they can get what they want by doing things for someone. It stands to reason that the more nice things you do for someone the more they will like you.  However in Influence: The Science of Persuasion Robert Cialdini says that in order to get someone to like you, you must first get them to do something for you.

That is not to say that you should make them do things for you or attempt to take without giving in return. However know that what a person.

Here are a couple realizations I have had based on my experiences about balance in relationships.

1)   People feel good by being able to do something for other people if they feel that they can freely do it.  This is also where people develop their feelings for someone, it is in the doing that they feel good.

2)   How you feel toward someone is going to come across more in your actions rather than your words. If you aren’t clear about how you feel about someone look for clues based on the history of your actions toward them.

3)   Receiving value from someone sets up a cycle of reciprocity where they want to give back to you and you want to give back to them. This is the foundation for almost any relationship.

4)   Many people feel guilty, even resentful if they feel that others are giving more to them than they can give back in return. This appears to be true to some extent with most people, however it is more pronounced if someone does feel like giving back to the other person or in people who lack a strong sense of self-worth and recognize the value that they contribute to others.

5)   Look for a person who is a good receiver and expects good things to happen to be the best giver over time.  If a person gives with the need of getting something in return then they will also.

Q: I’m a single guy in his late 20s. Recently I have been having great success using what I learned from you to generate all kinds of interest with women and have an abundant sex life with women I’m really attracted to.  However I’m having fun right now just being single and am not ready to settle down to date anyone woman right now. How do I maintain things as they are so that I can see many different women at once? What do I  do if she asks if I am seeing other women, I want to be honest but will she still want to be with me if she knows I am seeing other women?  How should I handle this?

Vincent P.

A: Dear Vincent P.,

Thank you very much for your question and I’m glad you are getting great results from my book. As you know I cover this in my book, both for setting expectations up front with a woman and how to manage relationships.  Most women will not admit to being attracted to another guy simply because other women are attracted to him. However most women respond to this, even for many women that claim they are looking for a relationship, don’t sleep around etc.

As I mention in my book, Become That Guy: Become Irresistibly Attractive if you are not directly looking for a monogamous relationship then you should make it clear either through the stories you tell about yourself and your life by being that guy who is already with women. This is not just good honesty by building trust, but it also makes you more appear more attractive to most women. Over time you will internalize understandings like this one through your experience and how you talk about yourself to others.  Essentially you become the guy equivalent of the hot chick. So here are a few reasons a woman will be attracted to a guy who is already taken.

1)   Social proof – If other women like you then she assumes there must be a reason. This sets her on a path where she will start looking for reasons that you are attractive and usually when a person looks for evidence that something is true they will tend to find it. This concept is also known as confirmation bias.

2)   Challenge and competition – “When women compete you win”

Many attractive women are used to men being “easy.” In her reality the guys all want to have sex with her, and she is the prize that men are pursuing.  However most of the men who approach her are not attractive to her, so she has the situation of many men but fewer men she is actually attracted to.  Knowing that there are other women in the picture brings out her competitive side. Basically she can say something to the effect of, “oh yeah, I’m better than that other (insert her word for a woman she doesn’t like here).

3)   It matches her beliefs about men– You may have heard women say, the good ones are already taken. This is often true, and a woman will wonder if you are a desirable guy who is interested in women why are you single. This is the same concept as with a business such as a restaurant; do you want to go to a restaurant that doesn’t have any cars out in front of it? Or do you start to wonder why there is no one there during lunch or dinner?  Many women are also attracted to men who are unavailable emotionally or don’t have much time to spend with her. This may be because she has daddy issues or she is busy with her life.

4)   She doesn’t have to worry that you’ll be clingy – If a woman is not looking for a relationship and the guy is already seeing other women then she doesn’t have to worry about dealing with his feelings or him liking her too much more than she likes him.  This can be a relief for a woman who recently broke up with or divorced someone or is really busy with grad school or work at the moment. However she may not want to admit that she is interested in sex but not a monogamous relationship at the moment for fear that a guy will judge her to be a slut, and either not want to have sex with her or not come back after the first time. By putting it out there first you take the pressure off of her.

So there are a few quick reasons why a woman will want to be with you and even be more attracted to you because you are seeing other women in addition to her.

An Autumn Ride

She was a woman on a mission, determined to hunt down an old flame for
a sensuous rendezvous, the passion long dormant buried deep inside,
was once again ignited.  She was riding hard along Skyline Drive on
her Harley, the wind blew through her reddish  hair as she sped
along the winding roads on a crisp autumn day; the fair skin of her
face was touched by a few freckles, that enhanced the light blue eyes
she kept focused on the road ahead.  She guided herself through the
tight hair pin turns at almost reckless speed, as fast as she could
control without flying off the side of the cliffs, she felt the rush
that you get from pushing the limits. The air was cool and clear, a
deep blue sky that stretched above her, as a bluish haze formed a
silhouette of the ridges of the Smokey’s off in the distance.

Brilliant reds and yellows decorated the panoramic view as if
carefully positioned by the meticulous brush strokes of an
impressionist painter, a tranquil background that contrasted with the
adrenaline-fueled excitement that was leading her down this road.

Months had passed since they last met, and distance now separated them
as much as her pursuit of her new job; a career move that would
position her to become one of the youngest women ever to make partner
at a big four accounting firm.  This ride toward her upcoming
rendezvous granted her the solitude she lacked from the constant
demands on her time during the work week and the opportunity for her
to be alone with her own thoughts and get away. With her driven
personality, she made sure she played as hard as she worked, she was
not content idly sitting around. Once they met, he would be her
partner in the escape from her everyday life. Now was her time, and
she could just say fuck it, this is mine.

She thought about the man she was to meet.  He was not her normal
rugged macho-man military type; but still, a very good-looking man
with clean-cut almost pretty-boy looks, a lean-muscular body that
complemented his sharp mind and keen understanding of how to satisfy
her carnal desires.  His strong presence exuded masculinity as well as
a confidence that naturally followed a deep understanding of women.
She found him fascinating, from the entrancing resonant sound of his
voice, to the piercing blue eyes that seemed to gaze into her soul and
instantaneously awaken feelings of lust and nervous excitement.

As she thought about their innate chemistry, a desire pulsed through
her veins with each beat of her heart and in every breath that she
took now, whenever she found herself thinking of him.

Butterflies flickered in the pit of her stomach while the vibrations
of the motorcycle hummed through her leather chaps to tantalize her
freshly shaven smooth pussy into a warm moist caldron of lust that
ached for his thick manhood to penetrate deep inside her.  She felt
all of the tension that had built these last couple months flood to
the surface now.

Her anticipation swelled as she could almost feel him now, inside of
her, and her thoughts drifted to their first time on that snowy winter
day when he fucked her with such carnal intensity and red hot passion
that had taken her to depths of pleasure far beyond anything she had
ever experienced and somehow each encounter seemed more intense than
the last…

She drew close to their meeting spot as she came upon the innocuous
trail that faintly meandered into the woods from the road.  She slowed
the Harley down and got off, the vibrations from the motorcycle still
resonating through her body. She walked purposefully through the
woods, and the leaves crunched underfoot from her leather boots- a
break in the near silence of the forest only gently interrupted by the
leaves that rustled in the wind and fell to the ground.   Blood pulsed
through her eager body, a little nervous and intensely excited at the
same time.  She could almost conjure up exactly how his skilled tongue
would gently tease its way down her belly toward her clit.  The velvet
warmth of his tongue’s caress and the powerful waves of pleasure he
could send through her, allowing her to surrender to the impending
tryst. She unzipped her jacket, allowing her plentiful cleavage to
show from underneath the matching black tank top.  She knew the effect
the sight of her would have upon him, how much he loved her breasts,
loved the powerful bad girl side of her which was so different from
all of those plain vanilla women he was used to and found so easily.
Unlike other women he could overwhelm with his calculating rakish
charm, she had always been an active participant in this seduction,
seducing him just as much as she was seducing her.  In her mind she
was already envisioning how she could get that look of desire back on
his face, using the power of her sensuality, her lips and tongue.

As she noticed a fork in the trail, she chose left and turned up the
hill, the trees thinned as she entered the rockier area.  Large
boulders surrounded her but framed a clear view for miles behind them.
She climbed onto one of the boulders and stood back to enjoy the
view.  Then she saw him.   His reddish blonde hair caught some of the
late afternoon sun as the breeze gently swept through his strands.

His lean muscular body was outlined by the tight black t-shirt beneath
his unzipped black leather jacket. She gazed impishly into his blue
eyes as she walked right toward him.  Without a word he cupped his
hands along her cheeks and kissed her full pouting lips, sending a
twinge of electricity shooting through her body.  She felt weak in the
knees as her body melted into him, yet the softness and warmth made
her feel safe at the same time.  The softness and the warmth made her
feel safe and yet weak in the knees as her body melted into his firm
arms. As they kissed, his hands hungrily roamed over her body,
deliberately pulling back her black leather jacket to expose her fair
cleavage which was practically bursting out of the constraints of her
top.  The contrast of the cold zipper dragged across her breasts and
the warm texture of the dark leather lightly titillated her pale skin
as it slid over her breasts and off her shoulders fueled the
excitement for them as they continued to kiss.

Her hands explored his body too, as she felt his defined arms and
strong chest-.  As the two became more turned on their light touches
became more frantic to remove each other’s clothing. She reached for
his shirt, as he cupped each breast in his hand, sucking on her taut
nipples, pulling them between his teeth, eager for more, passionately
kissing her breasts and on down over her soft belly as she shivered
with delight…

As he kissed down her body, his tongue licked and slightly tickled her
navel, until he made his way to her pussy which was now desperately
red hot with desire.  He undid the button of her leather chaps, and
kissed the tender skin underneath, the sheer black lace of her panties
barely concealed the ruby red lips of her labia that were peeking out
from underneath as he unzipped her.

He laid her down on the old comforter he brought with him, firmly
holding her hips in his arms as she shuddered with delight, he kissed
her still covered mound while he slid her panties and jeans down…  His
tongue gave a first lick toward her already glistening clit, and he
tasted the juices that had begun to flow over her silky smooth skin
and tender inner folds.  Her vaginal lips opened up to him like petals
as he pulled them back, her legs began to shake slightly as a spasm of
pleasure shot through her body like a current of electricity.  She
spread her legs a little more for him; he ran his tongue along her
engorged vulva to her clit, down one side and then the other… before
honing in on the bud.

The pace of his lapping increased directly on her clit, and the
feelings of arousal inside swelled quickly as her hips began to writhe
with sensations that were surging through her body and the energy
began to take on the glow of her own color of passion as it began to
flow through her body, the hue getting deeper with each breath she
took.  To her the moment was beautiful, the stillness of the woods
behind them, a dramatic sweeping view over the valley stretched out in
front of them, a crisp breeze caressed her face and the late afternoon
rays highlighted her body.  His tongue worked toward her smooth inner
lips, down to her anus lapping the little ridges, feeling naughty but
oh so good at the same time, then back up to her clit. He pulled her
swollen clit into his mouth, working it between his velvety tongue and
the roof of his mouth As he worked her clit between his firm tongue
and the roof of his mouth, he slid his fingers inside her and pressed
firmly against her g-spot, causing her body to arch in pleasure and
desire.

With each beat of her heart and each breath, more shallow now, she
could focus in on the accumulating sexual energy, she saw him inside
her mind as blood pulsed through her entire pussy, her muscles began
to spasm, the sensations tightened and then released as powerful
orgasmic waves of pleasure ran through her body with each muscular
contraction, the flood of the hue of the color took on a shape and
created a tingle that spread down her legs all the way toward her
toes, while another path crept up through her breasts down her arms
and to the top of her head; its path lit every inch of her sensuous
body until the energy  almost completely overwhelmed her. Her mind was
filled by the reddish hue that swirled through her drew her attention
to an aroma, a smell of passion that permeated her and that she had
never noticed before.  This heightened awareness both lit her up with
an extreme heightened awareness of her own senses and an intense focus
inside her mind that was all encompassing.  Gradually the intensity of
the flood started to calm and wind down. As her orgasm subsided, she
began to emerge as if from a trance.

He looked up to face her, his body positioned over her.  And as she
looked at him, at his lean muscular body with arms flexed, suddenly he
seemed more attractive than before, she wanted him, felt connected to
him, wanted his rock hard cock which she knew fit perfectly inside
her…

She wanted to make a move to get exactly what she wanted.  She wanted
to suck his cock, She got up from the ground still gaining her
bearings from the powerful orgasm that still reverberated throughout
her body. She pulled his shirt off over his head and then kissed his
body over his toned chest and rippled abs, to make her way down to his
massive erection.  She unzipped his jeans and ran her hands over his
firm stomach admiring the sheer strength of his body.  She opened her
mouth, and wrapped her lips around his cock, her mouth salivating as
if he were her favorite kind of candy; she felt the smooth texture
against her tongue and the roof of her mouth.  As her lips slid down
and came back up she glanced the smooth underside of her tongue across
the sensitive head. Lips firmly gripped his penis, and slid along as
she eagerly began milking his beautiful cock in her mouth; her hand
began stroking his shaft in time to the movements of her mouth.  He
let out a moan, enjoying the sight of her lips around his manhood as
she gazed up at him. Her head bobbed faster and arousal began to
spread through her body, she enjoyed the power she felt from giving
him head, power over his orgasm and the symbol of his masculinity.
She could feel the twitching of his muscles as his orgasm began to
build.  Then just as he was about to come, she stopped, squeezing his
urethra as an orgasm shot through his body as a cascading series of
waves of pleasure from the contractions in his penis. “I’m not going
to let you come yet, I want you to fuck me, to feel your cock deep
inside me.

With that she lay down ready for him to fuck her.  Her pussy still
glistening wet, aroused and ready to fuck.  His cock was fully
engorged with blood, mushroom shaped head capping the tip of his thick
cock.  As they shifted positions, he rubbed it along the length of her
vaginal lips, the bulbous tip teasing her, feeling her wetness coating
his manhood with her juices.  Up and then down again sending more
tingles through her body, aftershocks from her earlier orgasms that
made her think she might cum as soon as he penetrated deep inside her.
He kissed her neck, one hand gently pulling back her hair from her
neck and his teeth covered it with little bites of passion.

And then he poised the head and ever so slowly began to sink inside
her.  She gasped as she felt how large he was, the girth expanding
her, as he slid deeper inside, in her heightened awareness she noticed
every last sensuous ridge and fold. As the speed of his thrusts
increased and her sexual energy began to build toward an impending
series of orgasms, her mind retreated inside, and began to focus on
the color of that erotic sensation, growing more intense deep inside
her with each pulsation. The unique essence of him somehow added to
the earthiness of the moment along with the feel of the firm grip of
his hands on her hips, his massive cock expanding her in unique ways
she had not felt this intensely since the last time she had been with
him.  With one determined thrust he was deep inside her sending a
shudder of pleasure rushing through her and putting just the right
amount of pressure against her still swollen clit.  As her orgasm
continued to build, she felt her muscles getting ready, for the
intense orgasms about to explode through her… her pussy clenched
around his cock as each ridge became a ring of sheer pleasure
surrounding him and the color became very deeply brilliant, a light
spreading through her whole body, flooding it with each convulsion of
pleasure spreading throughout her body with each shallow breath that
she took and each throbbing beat of her heart…  As she started to cum,
his thrusts became more urgent, the intensity of his pleasure
contributing to the wanton desire of his lust as he started fucking
her hard, her legs going back to allow him deeper inside, completely
feeling  him as his fucking rocked her body.  Building to the point
where he exploded in orgasm with loud groans, , she could feel each
muscle contraction as his cum shot deep within  her, filling her,  as
his heart beat hard  next to hers, transferring the adrenaline into
her body as well… Leaving her pleasantly disheveled, feeling deeply
satisfied and relaxed.

As they settled into a warm afterglow, the two lovers were content for
the moment.  They knew they were going to enjoy this weekend in the
mountains and indulge one another’s pent-up desires.  Though time
would end the weekend, it would also fuel the kind of hot, passionate
sex that proximity and fleeting minutes breed.

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