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Porn That Women Like: Why Does It Make Men So Uncomfortable?

Become That Guy — Fri, 11 May 2012 21:01:47 +0000

Porn That Women Like: Why Does It Make Men So Uncomfortable?

http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2011/11/17/porn_that_women_like_why_does_it_make_men_so_uncomfortable_.html?wpisrc=obinsite

What Women Want: Porn and the Frontier of Female Sexuality

http://www.good.is/post/what-women-want

Seduction de Mayo – May 5 – 6 day and night bootcamp

Become That Guy — Mon, 30 Apr 2012 02:04:31 +0000

Become That Guy Day and Night pickup artist boot camp May 5 in Washington, DC

Who else wants to have unbelievable power and choice in their interactions with women?

Whether you think you want to become a major player or think that you want to find one special girlfriend this course will give you specific tools that you can use to take your game to the next level.

Notice I said think you want a girlfriend – this is because once you have mastered these skills and developed an abundance with women you might find you are perfectly happy having more than one woman.

In this seminar on the weekend of Saturday May 5, 2012 you will learn effective communication strategies that you can use immediately, both during the day and night with the women you desire. You will learn through a combination of seminar teaching, demonstrations and guided exercises to develop your voice tonality, emotional expression and sub communication and by immediately taking it out into the real world through an outdoor festival.

Whether you are a veteran of my past coaching or a newbie that is still developing his skill set you will find much to be gained from this evening session. This seminar will provide you with solid tools that you can immediately apply to your interactions with women and to your life in general.

And if you are going to go to the time and money to learn, why not learn from someone with over 13 years of experience in sales, NLP and other persuasion tactics? Someone who started when the seduction movement was still underground, Mystery was still developing his method and Neil Strauss was still writing biographies about porn stars instead of banging them.

Much of what will be taught is outlined in the social skills and seduction roadmap sections of my book Become That Guy: Become Irresistibly Attractive a comprehensive A – Z reference for pickup, available on Amazon.com and from Michael which will be included for this course.

Learn in such a way, using accelerated learning strategies so that you will find yourself naturally doing and saying the right things at the right time without having to stop to think about it.

Before I go into more detail about what you’ll learn, here is what some past attendees of this seminar are saying

What Michael teaches really works, use it!

I was skeptical at first, as you guys know I am of everything, however after seeing this woman literally drop into a trance when she was out with Michael I attended one of his weekend seminars and thought it was so powerful that I then signed up for his month long comprehensive coaching program Here is what happened, note that I am still a virgin, (update 4 weeks later: no longer a virgin, 1 year later still dating the same woman) although I feel I’m going to make a lot more progress in the coming months …

Here is my experience with Michael’s seminar; as you all know, I was one of about 25 guys that took Michael’s weekend seminar, which included lots of skills from NLP which I think was very powerful. I think it is integratable into any style of attracting women. So whether you’re a natural, a PUA, an RSD, or whatever … learning this universal language of attraction will help you to communicate powerfully at a nonverbal level.

While on the metro coming back from infield coaching in DC, I approached a woman on the metro and within 5 minutes got an IOI (indicator of interest) that I have never gotten before. She exposed her neck at a 45 degree angle and put her hair on it and was stroking it gently. I think she is attracted to me I think to myself … BUT WHAT NEXT?

All of a sudden I felt that same tension and relaxation that QuickKill (Michael) made with that chic in front of the room. Her eye’s got shinier and I felt I was in a bubble. I started to ignore the sounds of the metro, and the train seemed to get faster and I was running out of time before my stop. All I remember of this situation was the constant eye contact we had, the neck she had, and everything going so fast! She ended up giving me her phone number without me asking for it.

Keep in mind this is my first time that I tried this out after learning it earlier that day.

Michael’s stuff works, Use it. Thanks Mike. I’ll see you in the coaching program.

Sean A.

23 year old grad student

I was able to seduce one of the “most wanted” girls in my social group

I took Michael’s comprehensive coaching program in July and August 2010. With the new skills that I learned with Michael, I was able to seduce one of the “most wanted” girls in my social group right at the end of the month long workshop! She is beautiful and very smart. After starting out as “Friends with Benefits” now she is my girlfriend, so I wanted to keep the details private. Sorry, guys. Now you know why you have not seen me out …

In Michael’s coaching program, his students learn how to awaken the “Discovery Channel” side of women, while still being quite straightforward with them. During this workshop, you always get a strong feeling that Michael is really interested in seeing his students being successful.

People who benefit the most from this workshop are the women who are dating Michael’s students. That is because we learn how to pleasure a woman and give her amazing orgasms. Bring a notebook and take very good notes on what he says!

Ron E.

41, Washington, DC

Here is some of what you will learn

• How to build your own custom state of mind and access it on command as if pushing a button and adapt it to the situation that you find yourself in.

• Approach with confidence through drills where we break it down step by step over the first few critical minutes. We will alternate between drills, live approaches and real-time feedback.

• Body posture and movement exercises to train yourself to effortlessly project the kind of relaxed confident power that is naturally attractive to women. Identify and eliminate any moves that were attraction killers which you were probably not aware of.

• Develop your own personal “DHV” stories of intrigue and adventure that effectively convey personal qualities about you. Every guy has several good stories of adventure in him, you just need to know how to tell it in a way that is exciting and engages the sense with sensory-rich descriptive language.

• Develop your own personal career elevator speech that turn the “what do you do” question into an interesting conversational lead-in rather than a conversation killer.

• Conversational flexibility, learn to effortlessly flow from one conversational topic to another. Proactively lead the conversation instead of waiting for a topic to wither and die.

• Sexually escalate the conversation smoothly through through your skillful use of language and your touch with smooth kino escalation. Go for it when the moment is right. Never get caught in the platonic “friend zone” again.

• Several ways to quickly get her phone number to continue the interaction and take her home “QuickKill style” or get a quick phone number so that you can continue to escalate through text messages to seduce her that night or with a day 2 already seeded and setup.

Coaching program following the conclusion of this bootcamp

This seminar is offered both on its own and as part of my coaching program and will kick off my next round of my coaching program to clients. The daytime seminar will include guided drills and demonstrations.

This will also be the lead in for another round of my coaching program to follow up on what you have learned during the weekend seminar.

Here are some of the features.

Click here to sign up now!

If that sounds good, read on …

Become that Guy coaching program – A structured approach to become “that guy” who women want to be with.

This seminar will kick off my next round of coaching.

Who else wants to have a lifetime of overwhelming success and abundance with women?

Depending on where your skills and experience levels are at there are a potentially overwhelming number of various aspects to work on. What should you learn first and then next? There are many different approaches to Pickup that can lead you to success, however gaining knowledge is only half the battle. The far greater challenge for most people is persistently applying that knowledge and taking action. There is a big difference between knowing what to do and doing what you know. Goals and the willingness to persist until you reach them are the bridges that span this gap.

No matter what different tactics or strategies you learn, the road to becoming successful is included in the following steps:

Saturday night time we will work on approaches, drills and feedback Last time we did this we had great fun and two of the guys had women from bachelorette party stop by for some late night action.

We will also have improvisational drills to help you integrate conversational hypnosis techniques into your game until you spin patterns on the fly. Sunday will be daygame, and now that the weather is nicer we will be going outside or wherever we can to find woman ready to meet a guy of their dreams. Before I go any further into a description of the details, here are some reviews by other members of the pickup artist forum:

Preliminary Review

This review is preliminary after just starting QuickKill (Michael’s) coaching program. (Update 5 weeks later he is no longer a virgin, story at the end of this letter) So far I have done one of the one-on-one phone coaching sessions, attended 2 evening seminars and his weekend mini boot camp and gone out infield with him twice.

Basically, I need not introduce you all to Quickkill too much as his reputation speaks for itself. I chose Quick based on the fact that he’s one of the few members here who consistently gets action. Also, he’s been in the seduction scene for over 13 years now (back when Style and Mystery were just AFCs), I’ve seen him do his magic in field and he’s a pretty charming guy.

Quickkill has an entire framework that covers the full range of what you need to learn to be effective at pickup from opener to sex. He starts by covering inner game, which includes developing empowering beliefs about yourself, women and sexuality that enable you to be effective.

He also covers basic communication skills like rapport, voice, and physical touch. Then on to text, phone and sex itself. Then of course there are the language patterns themselves which are slightly more advanced but tremendously powerful. While some things seem intimidating at first, it’s amazing how effective these things are even if you don’t do them perfectly at first.

Basically, his coaching program covers it all. And what’s best is that it’s catered to you and your needs, through the one-on-one coaching calls, broken down in a way that utilizes your own learning curve and best of all – he’s right there with you.

The way he teaches it is awesome and fun. You learn through demonstrations that he does with women, interactive exercises and through transference just by being around him. And you learn by messing around with people. The funny thing is sometimes you don’t know all that you have learned until you just find yourself incorporating it infield with women.

The skills will start to become part of who you are, how you communicate and your own personal identity in order to help maximize your hidden charmer.

Still though, what I find useful about what QuickKill teaches FOR ME are the little things, so to speak. That is, he teaches the more detailed parts of how to maintain attraction through NORMALIZED conversations, giving you tools that help make you REALLY stand out and be very interesting for who you are.

Michael is a smart guy and he uses intelligence to engage a woman’s interest and distinguish himself from the rest of the jokers out there, which is something I can identify with myself since I consider myself to be pretty intellectual and enjoy the company of women that are the same.

In QuickKill’s model you can be sexually forward and unapologetically direct so that she can qualify herself by staying there talking to you. Trust me, this shit is powerful and a needed addition to your game. If you have any doubts like I did at first, just read his stories and those of his students and watch the woman’s responses when he demonstrates them live at seminars and infield.

TRUE SEDUCTION is not just opening and flirting. THIS IS true seduction. His rapid escalation is used as a way to qualify women, and gain compliance. The art of seduction is essentially the ability to capture and lead a woman to feel emotions in such a way that only you can do. Being able to powerfully engage a woman at an emotional and sexual level in the way QuickKill teaches is very powerful.

Salem S. Washington, DC graduate student in Finance

Here is some of what you will learn in the coaching program

No matter what different tactics or strategies you learn, the road to becoming successful covers at least these steps.

1) Gain more control of your own state of mind.

In other words find ways to deal with social pressures and “approach anxiety” in a way to deal with social pressure and anxiety and how to get yourself into an ideal state of mind for being attractive to women – control of your “state”

2) Learn to capture and lead a woman’s state of mind and emotions with your own state of mind and ability to communicate.

3) Develop your social skills to the point that you fluidly read and respond to her in real time until it becomes a part of who you are

4) Understand what women really want. Hint it’s not necessarily what they say they want (although most women will disagree with you on this).

5) Be sexually potent, no just good but so good women go around and brag to all of their friends and women can sense

What does my program include?

I have developed a systematic approach to developing your social and seduction skill sets spread out over about 4 weeks. Through evening and weekend workshops you will systematically observe demonstrations, have guided practice and then rehearse and master skill sets. These skill sets will be directly applicable for immediate results while also forming a solid foundation for extraordinarily powerful interpersonal communication.

In the coaching program you will learn

1) How to build an incredibly powerful seduction state of mind Be That Guy who is in state and go beyond overcome “approach anxiety” rather than just try to ignore it or plow through it.

• Design in your own ideal emotional state so that you can build that perfect combination of charisma, playfulness, genuine curiosity, awareness and sexuality.

• How to lead her own state of mind using your own state of mind to capture and lead a woman’s state of mind and emotions with your own state of mind and ability to communicate.

2) Start a conversation anytime, anywhere, approach with a certainty.

• Learn some good openers and develop your own effective openers to initiate your interactions with women and serve as a guide so you know what to say while you are honing your social communication skills

3) Learn the psychology of attraction, why do some things seem to work that seem counterintuitive or contrary to what you’ve always heard? Understand what women really want. Hint: it’s not necessarily what they say they want (although most women will disagree with you on this). Learn why different kinds of game work and learn how to use these skill sets to build upon or strengthen your existing game.

• You don’t have to change who you are, just understand how the principles apply to your unique situation.

• Goal setting – Learn to clarify your intent and build up such a strong level of energy necessary to make achieving your goal much stronger than any fears or doubts you could run into.

4) Develop your social skills to the point that you fluidly read and respond to her in real time until it becomes a part of who you are. Develop your social skill sets easily through roleplays and guided practice drills to develop your voice tonality, emotional expression and subtle subcommunication – that is what is subtly implied by what you do and do NOT do. NLP gives a strong framework for systematically developing your skills.

• Voice tonality – Develop an irresistibly voice so that she starts getting turned on just listening to the sound of your voice. See this with your own eyes as I demonstrate live.

• Magical rapport – Learn techniques like the “gold bubble” which grew out of various techniques taught by alternative “energy” workers to the CIA. Instantly establish rapport without saying a word. This technique is so simple yet so powerful it has to be experienced to believe

• Calibration - Learn the art of pushing the limits without going past them. This skill set gives you the ability to rapidly sexually escalate with a woman even if she “doesn’t normally do that.”

• Anchoring – Have you ever got a woman into a great state of mind through your conversation and thought everything was totally on the hook, only to be disappointed when you tried to make a second date or met up again. Learn to activate those same juicy states of mind as easily as pushing a button.

5) An arsenal of specific word for word Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) language patterns and routines guaranteed to get you laid in a variety of circumstances.

• Advanced conversational structures - Learn basic formulas that will make your stories truly irresistible, even if normally they would be too much. This allows you to rapidly escalate sexually in person, on the phone, by text, daytime, night time anytime. The bonus is that you can practice and learn these structures by text and phone with the words right in front of you.

• Linguistic patterns – Ever wonder what to say, or worried that you’ll screw things up when they are going well? Use these example stories which employ metaphors and various techniques applied in sales and politics for year.

Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP)

Neuro Linguinie Pro … what? You say. Instead of trying to explain it myself, here is one of my clients had to say.

This one’s long overdue. I’ve taken a few rounds of QuickKill’s program and I can’t say enough good things about it.

I first signed on for the program for the very simple reason that I felt that my game had reached a plateau and that I needed something to kick me up to the next level. In retrospect, I’d have to say that my sticking points at the time were building attraction and trigger anxiety. Sure, I could open sets and my conversational skills were very good. But although I was good at interacting, I wasn’t good at attracting. And in those instances where I did have attraction, I wouldn’t push things as far as I should have.

If you’ve never seen QuickKill in set, you should. I’ve never seen anyone as forceful and aggressive and willing to push the envelope. And the girls eat it up like a fat kid on candy. In uncalibrated hands just being dominant and sexually aggressive could be a recipe for disaster. But teaching the calibration underlying this ability is where he excels and is the essence of what he teaches you. A deep understanding of the psychology of attraction that allows you rapidly escalate with women.

NLP is a major part of what he teaches. And he’s very skilled with it to say the least. Unfortunately, I’ve met lots of guys with misconceptions about what NLP is. If I had to come up with a definition of NLP, I’d call it the art and science of communicating with maximum effectiveness. You don’t have to be a grand master ninja with this stuff for it to be effective. Just knowing and applying a few key concepts can be very helpful. If you don’t at least know the basics, you’re really short changing yourself. It’s one of those things where the more you learn and apply it, the more natural and effective it becomes for you. You may find that it instantly gives your game a boost, or you may find it takes a little practice for it to become maximally effective. But either way, you’re game is sure to improve.

But he’s not just going to teach you a bunch of language patterns and send you on your way. Each classroom session is dedicated to some aspect of game, usually based on the sticking points of the group. He gives a rundown of the things he tries to teach in a course announcement and I can honestly say that he delivers on all. But I’d especially like to point out the bit about identifying and changing your limiting beliefs. This skill alone is worth the price of admission. I had been misdiagnosing some of my own sticking points. QuickKill got ‘em right and has been very creative in coming up with effective ways for me to address and change them. He’s not joking about customizing a plan that’s just right for you.

But most of all you’re getting access not just to a solid PUA, but to a solid guy. He genuinely loves what he’s doing, and gets tons of enjoyment out of not just teaching, but out of seeing your progress. He understands his own sticking points and is dedicated to working on them and his enthusiasm for self improvement is contagious. He’s completely ego-free and is a lot of fun to hang out with.

So, am I the PUA I always dreamed of being after taking his course?? No, but that’s not the point. The point is that he helped me identify things that were holding me back and gave me tools that helped me get to the next level. Totally recommended.

NLP is a major part of what he teaches. And he’s very skilled with it to say the least. Unfortunately, I’ve met lots of guys with misconceptions about what NLP is. If I had to come up with a definition of NLP, I’d call it the art and science of communicating with maximum effectiveness. You don’t have to be a grand master ninja with this stuff for it to be effective. Just knowing and applying a few key concepts can be very helpful. If you don’t at least know the basics, you’re really short changing yourself. It’s one of those things where the more you learn and apply it, the more natural and effective it becomes for you. You may find that it instantly gives your game a boost, or you may find it takes a little practice for it to become maximally effective. But either way, your game is sure to improve.

- Todd

35, Bio Chemical researcher

Washington, DC

6) Online dating including profile review and setup. Optimize your profile based on your strengths and what you are looking for. Learn how to go from picking which women to contact, to crafting your first message, to phone number, to meeting in person, even having her come over to your house that night.

7) Develop your own phone and text message templates to guide your communication and make sure that you consistently take all of the steps necessary for success.

• Yes, every person is different, but just like I learned through my experiences working in sales and politics, there are certain “buttons” to be pressed. Take the “luck” out of getting lucky, by consistently doing the types of things that women want.

Create your own personalized stories that convey the best of who you are based on your own life experiences applying powerful techniques used by professional story tellers. Develop an interesting answer to the question: “So what do you do?” and “where are you from?” transition these to conversational topics that women are already interested in, they will help carry the conversation and seduce themselves.

8) Four one on one coaching calls where you can get individual feedback and solutions on sticking points and specific scenarios or dates with women.

Michael is very focused on the student

This is a long overdue review of Michael’s become that guy seminar. Hope it helps.

After attending an extensive 2-day weekend workshop with Michael I decided to take the plunge into his 4 week program. I thought it was a great bargain compared to other expensive stuff out there.

Typically each week we started with a class workshop going over NLP and general social concepts and patterns. The classes were long and went over a lot of material. There were handouts with a lot material to practice and study.

After the classes we went out to local bars and did in field sessions. The great things I got out of the infield part was how easily Michael was able to initiate with good energy and simple conversation. One of my sticking points was trying to over think of complicated ways to get conversations started. Just watching him closely he was able to disprove a lot of community theory that you needed to be super strategic in opening. I mirrored some of his style and found great results on opening.

Another good thing I got out of the workshop was a realistic perspective on meeting women and a quantitative approach similar to sales. That if you focus on opening an x number of conversations with women a Y amount will hook and turn into a solid conversation. Some will be interested, some won’t, so what. As you get better you can improve upon this. This painted a realistic picture that its better to keep talking to lots of women until things start to get going. When you keep these things in mind you get less attached to outcomes and one particular girl etc.. (for the most part!)

In addition to night game we did some daytime outings. Michael opened up many sets and groups, often with higher energy. To my surprise I was also able to use high energy to open sets in the streets and shops etc..

Day game also presented a good way to practice NLP patterns (engaging stories and vivid descriptions) to see how they are effective with daytime conversation. Both myself and another student had a lot of day game experience we were able to tweak Michael’s material to our day game.

Just watching him closely talking to women he was able to disprove a lot of community theory that you needed to be super strategic in opening. I mirrored some of his style and found great results on opening.

We had several phone sessions. He made sure that I got all of my questions answered before ending a call and even stayed up late to talk. Michael gave me homework to write stories which he would take time to edit and review. I went over the stories on the phone and got coached into how to make them more interesting and engaging. Overall Michael is very focused on the student and makes himself available beyond what is initially designated.

Prashant N.

29, Computer Sales Washington, DC

9) Infield sessions during day, night and social group settings like Meetups, outdoor festivals, coffee shops, bars and more. Get immediate feedback on what you are doing right and what can be improved upon.

10) Devastatingly powerful QuickKill physical and verbal sexual escalation tactics that will give you unbelievable power when it comes time to get it on.

11) Mind melting sexual techniques, such that I have been called addictive by the women I know. In fact many of my woman friends ask for references when I am busy for guys that I know have been trained in the sexual arts.

Rub My Bald head for Good Luck

I am a divorced single father who just turned 50, spent 20 years in the Navy and the chicks love to rub my bald head for good luck.

I think the coaching program is appropriate for almost all levels of skill – I would say that people in my cohort ranged from beginner to fairly advanced and all seemed to get value from program.

If you are already good he will offer you a few tricks to make your game better. Will it provide the missing pieces in your game – I don’t know but you will get NLP training and more field time which surely will not hurt.

Michael is direct in his approach and is good at quickly identifying which women are into him. That said he pulls some hot chicks – have seen him do it. His skills and ability are very real and if you want to learn how he operates talk to him or take one of his seminars.

Michael has a passion for the subject and is a ego-less Guru of pickup, he has a quick mind and is a cool guy to boot.

I’ve had a lot of fun going out with the cohort every week – I plan to continue to continue with program as I think it offers a good value for the money. Very cool guy who offers a lot of value. Take his NLP seminar!

Paul M.

Fairfax

A single Lady formerly in DC now back in Europe

(from her blog post on the DC dating coach she picked up http://dramaindc.com/2010/06/22/the-dating-coach/

… He picks me up at my place and we go and pick up beer and head to a park close to the national airport where we have a mini picknick. We have a great conversation about sex, relations between men and women and how things need to be stirred up a bit in America. He tells me more about his techniques and what he teaches and I am intrigued. I like men that are direct and he is very open about sex and talks about it very easily. Absolutely my kind of guy.

Of course we start making out, after all he teaches men how to have sex with women on the first date or get them home from the bar. We end up naked on the towel and he goes down on me and gives me GREAT oral. I had multiple orgasms. It was just way too good for me to be able to tell him to stop. We make out some more and he gets on top of me. We decided quickly though that it would be more comfortable to finish this off at his place so we put our clothes on and get moving.

When we get to his place we talk some more. Drink more beer and he makes us a late night snack. We really enjoyed each other company and we realize that we have quite a few things in common. We start making out some more and again the clothes are off and he goes down on me. This time I had a much stronger orgasm, even better than the one in the park. I really LOVE guys that think about pleasuring the lady first. I could tell that he got a kick out of pleasuring me and I absolutely didn’t mind at all. We then cuddle and go to bed.

We wake up the day after and we get it on again. This time he decided to fuck me first and OHH MY did he fuck me hard! I was literally SCREAMING it was so good! He then went down on me again and this time it was really intense, I was on the verge of climax for so long that he had to slow things down to help me get there and OHH MY GOD! AMAZING orgasm!

He then made us brunch and we ate and talked on his balcony. He mentioned that his apartment complex had a swimming pool and that I’d look great in a bikini. I told him I’d definitely come and hang out by the pool. I enjoyed how me mentioned that he would get a kick out of the other guys looking at me and him being able to grin going “yes I’m hitting that.”

Afterwards he drove me home.

What a gentleman!

-D

P.S. I give him *****/***** for the oral!

Why learn from this type of approach and skill set?

Ok sounds good, what is my investment?

PUA/ seduction seminars often charge anywhere from $1500 – 3000, corporate NLP trainers often charge companies anywhere from $20,000 to over $1,000,000 for group trainings. Top trainers like Tony Robbins have conducted one on one trainings in the White House, yes the president hired a trainer.

Why Should I pay money to learn?

If you met even one person who rocked your world, would it be worth it? What if you were to consider the value of your time that you can never get back. Worse yet it is a gamble because it’s not guaranteed that you will get what you want. I’ve seen it happen all the time, for more of my clients than I can count. They save hundreds of dollars each month while avoiding the hassle and heart ache of dating, and they meet one amazing woman after another… all in the natural flow of their daily life.

How much money have you spent going out on dates – THIS MONTH ALONE – only to find that nothing comes of it except more frustration or even the feeling of being used? It is worth it?

You bet it is!

I’m pretty well established financially, with the car and the slick apartment to prove it, however this still wasn’t enough to meet quality women I wanted to be with. I once even spent $5,000 to fly this former magazine model across the country and all I got was a peck on the cheek. I always thought that money however that somehow if I had more money things would just kind of work out for me. Then I realized that most women aren’t truly attracted to a guy because of how much money he has, they just need to feel a certain way. That understanding in practice really is priceless.

- Andy

42, consultant

Washington, DC

The price for my weekend bootcamp and follow up coaching includes:

• 4 weekly 2 hour webinar seminar sessions devoted to learning this material.

• At least 4 infield sessions covering day game, bar game and club game

• 4 one on one coaching calls like an executive coach for your personal life, where you can review material from class, review field reports, identify your individual sticking points and help you customize and adapt these new skills into your attitude and behavior.

Homework as drills, exercises and missions so you always know what to do next.

Click here to sign up now!

When you signup now you will also get the following bonuses

Bonus #1

A copy of my book Become That Guy: Become Irresistibly Attractive which will serve as our primary text. (29.95 value)

Bonus #2

The Adventures of Michael: narrated field reports from Michael and his top students.

See how to do things step by step in these stories previously hidden from the public. Every story includes ultra rapid seduction where it went from first meeting to sex the first time they met. This includes meeting women through

At bars, outdoor festivals even on the street at night
Online dating
At speed dating events, meetups,
While traveling, on air planes, at hostels, at the beach, at pools
Women sent to come visit me from 500 miles away by longtime friends.
And this is not just me, my client’s success stories are also shared after previously being buried in the private forum.
A 4 and a half foot tall guy who lost his viginity to a 6 foot tall blonde fitness trainer,
Another meets a woman online and they go to the beach in the middle of the night.
My website developer gets picked up by one of my wing woman and much more!

($24.95 value)

Bonus #3

A free copy of my new Text Game and sexting secrets course based on the seminar where I break it down step by step from text to sex. (49.95 value)

Bonus #3

Sexual Escalation seminar and course – Learn how to rapidly yet smoothly escalate in a way that doesn’t come across as overly intrusive, needy or creepy. (49.95 value)

By now you are probably wondering which option would be best for you.

Option #1

Day and night Saturday seminar on Cinco de Mayo. You will learn a huge amount of skills and be able to begin applying them immediately.

Option #2

Gold Coaching Program

Everything from the seminar plus

Bonus 1, 2 and 3 and …

· Weekly training sessions

· Infield coaching sessions to learn more and continue to develop your skills.

· Weekly coaching calls, one-on-one strategy sessions.

· Missions and exercises so you have a way of charting your progress.

· Wardrobe makeover – Fix up the way that you dress to become a chick magnet

· Plus …

Bonus #4

Online dating course plus profile review and setup. Optimize your profile based on your strengths and what you are looking for, leveraging Michael’s 8 years of experience with online game (Yes, I was picking up women off the internet in 2003 and 2004 while appearing to “work”). Learn the unique features of the online site Ok Cupid and learn from step by step examples from Michael and his students how to go from first glance at her profile to having her knock at your door. (149.95 value)

Bonus #5

Advanced Sexual Skills seminar and course: Learn how to give a woman incredible orgasms through advanced sexual techniques that very few men know about other than sexual shamens and gurus that live on top of a desert mountain somewhere. This is one secret to keeping women constantly coming back for more without it being in a “committed” relationship. Blow their mind and you can be sure they will blow yours, there are many adventures things they will eagerly ask to do for you that you might not have thought women were into including sex in public places, 3 somes, even anal sex. I know it surprised me the first time I had a woman ask for that, but it doesn’t seem too uncommon anymore. ($249.95)

Bonus #6

Be Irresistibly Attractive hypnosis audio to build an unstoppable powerful frame of mind. Effortlessly install the ideal states of mind in your mind before you drift off the sleep each night. Be able to do the right things automatically without having to worry or think about them. (24.95 value)

Sexual Confidence and dominance hypnosis. Build in such a powerful sexual confidence that she becomes turned on simply by being in your presence. ($24.95 value)

Option #3

Platinum Coaching Program

Includes:

· Day and Night bootcamp

· Continuing education in the form of weekly seminars / webinars.

· Become That Guy book autographed copy

· Pre-release of the Adventures of Michael and his clients – secret field reports book

· Sexual Escalation, sexual skills and much more.

· Text to sex. Learn how to effectively continue the conversation through text messages, so she meets up with you.

· Hypnosis audio recordings to build confidence as you drift off to sleep.

· Online Dating profile creation and follow up strategy.

· Personal makeover – pimp out your outfit and watch how things can change for you.

· One-on-one infield coaching sessions – rapidly develop your skills one-on-one.

· Introductions to my women friends who are looking to meet certain “pre-qualified” guys.

· Special on call availability for when you have questions with women that need immediate answers.

Click here to sign up now!

And if you were still wondering if now is a good time, know that I will be doing a major publicity campaign in the near future in conjunction with the DC Dating Conference www.dcdatingconference.com followed by a tour in many different cities for my book and a 2^nd book release. So I can’t guarantee my availability or rates in the future.

So sign up to today to guarantee that you have access to this now while it’s still available.

About Michael Hurst

Michael Hurst is a dating coach, author and speaker based in Washington, DC. His book Become That Guy: Become Irresistibly Attractive is a comprehensive resource for dating and self-development. While in college 11 years ago he discovered the early stages of what is now known as the Pickup Artist (PUA) movement which helped him develop more power and choice in his dating life with women.

He has spoken at many national conferences including the 2010 PUA World Summit in Los Angeles, the World’s Largest convention for men’s dating and “pickup artists” and at the Global Pickup Conference in Washington, DC in January 2011. In addition to his own seminar and coaching business he also runs the DC Dating Coach Meetup and DC Pickup Artist Meetup Groups in Washington, DC . While his coaching has been geared toward men meeting women, seminar courses and a book for women will be coming soon.

No Longer a Virgin!

… I read over some patterns and material that QUICKKILL had taught me. Without the WORKSHOP CLASSES on how to use NLP and subsequent patterns properly, I would not have been able to take this all the way.

… I make my way to Quickkill’s place in VA (which was not part of the program, but he let me stop by anyway). I’m a nervous wreck. I’m nervous, from being worried about whether or not this date and her house would be the moment I finally lost my virginity, that and too much Mountain Dew and cigarettes. I’m sure Michael must have found it amusing to have a nervous midget pacing around in circles in the parking lot (I’m 4’6 for those of you who don’t know).

After I reviewed things with him again, he said “It looks like it’s on” and I said “I know, but what if I suck at sex?” But he managed to calm me down and reminded me of a few of his killer sex techniques, being good at oral takes off much of the pressure to perform. He also hands me a deck of hand-writing analysis cards from his course (which I knew she’d dig since she’s also a psych. Major).

Fast forward to her house, in her bedroom, roommate gone for the evening. I remark that it must be tough being her even thought she’s a tall blonde, personal fitness trainer. She said “wow, I didn’t think you’d know… most guys have no idea. And yet, you do, unlike other guys. No wonder you’re such a lady’s man…you’re so different…

She’s shocked that I know all this. That I am connecting with her. She begins breathing heavily after changing into a sexy outfit again. I mirror her breathing. I then also mirror her key words back to her, anchor them alternate between being more sexual and more comfort. Clearly, she knew what was happening but she didn’t seem to quite know how or what it was I was doing to get her to become so hot (something she’d later state in bed).

She gets close after she wears it and we are on the bed together. We talk bullshit, psychology, bullshit, more psychology, friends, and finally sex. I get her to tell me about her all lesbian 3-way experience during camp. I then run the instantaneous-connection pattern on her when the time was right.

I ask to smell her perfume since she told me she’s obsessed with scents. I begin kissing her neck. Then I move to her mouth. I lay her down, go down to the her chest and begin kissing in between her breasts. She’s loving it.

I move down to her belly button, I kiss that, I move up to her lips, then back down and then I eat her out and make her cum… WTF, THIS IS AWESOME”

Thanks to all who helped me through this process (ESPECIALLY QUICKKILL’S) advice on how to sexualize things and for getting me out of my comfort zone I am no longer a virgin … May this inspire you all.

Salem S.

Washington, DC

DC Dating Conference June 23 benefit for Crohn’s and Colitis

Become That Guy — Sat, 21 Apr 2012 17:48:47 +0000

DC Dating Conference Charity fundraiser

to benefit Michael Hurst’s run in the Crohn’s and Colitis half-marathon

www.dcdatingConference.com

Have you often gotten

conflicting pieces of

advice when it comes to dating?

Perhaps you have been told that things will just happen or that you have to play games to be successful with the opposite sex.

Or you have gotten the same worn out advice that you should “be yourself” yet it doesn’t help you to get what you want. It can be confusing, especially if there is no step by step process, no road map to guide you.

Are you tired of everyone talking about their significant others? Or some of the conventions of traditional dating including cards, flowers, your Mom asking you when you’ll every meet someone and bring them home to introduce them? So how about doing something different for a change?

The 2012 DC Dating Conference by Michael Hurst is intended to give you practical tools and techniques that you can use to get results TONIGHT! You will learn how to act, talk, and move, so that you will become naturally attractive to the person you desire.

In addition to making great strides in your dating life, an added benefit is that the procedes of this conference will be donated to a good cause, Michael’s run in the Crohn’s and Colitis Team Challenge half marathon to raise funds and awareness for Crohn’s and Colitis.

Saturday June 23, 2012 at noon in Washington, DC – location will be sent to attendees

Sign up here for DC Dating Conference

In this seminar (for both men and women) you will learn how to:

· Instantly establish an almost “magical” level of openness and trust without saying a word. Establish a strong connection with someone within minutes.

· Be confident and fun anytime you want to meet someone you are attracted to. Be able to turn on the charm like flipping a switch.

· Walk sexy, talk sexy, even burp sexy (just kidding about the last one) by conditioning yourself through stretches and exercises that develop you posture and graceful body movement. Notice the results immediately as you see how others now respond to your presence.

· Avoid some of the most common fashion mistakes as well as learn some tips for how to dress, don’t let your clothes hold you back!

· Turn the same old small talk conversations like “what do you do?” and “where are you from?” into stories that create a spontaneous and flirty conversation using improv techniques. Avoid getting stuck in boring interview-style conversations that leave you grasping for something interesting to say.

· Answer common questions like “where are you from?” and “what do you do?” in a way where you create a spontaneous, fun conversation. Avoid getting stuck in boring interview-style conversations that leave you running out of things to say.

· Be funny, develop your wit and charm with the input of experienced comedians. Learn how you can make your own life experiences into fun and interesting stories.

· When to call, what to do and what to say it as you call and text to set up dates – Turn a promising first meeting in person or from online into another fun and exciting meeting in person.

Signup today for DC Dating Conference

It seems that his life mission is to help people better connect with each other

I’ve met so many inspiring men that I now blog about the ones I date. When I found out Michael was a dating coach, I told myself “challenge accepted!” I think the approach Michael teaches is effective but respectful. It seems that his life mission is to help people better connect with each other not just on a sexual level, but on all levels.

Drama in DC

25 year old female grad student

Here is another experience from one of my past attendees.

I was able to get with one of the “most wanted” girls in my social group

I took Michael’s comprehensive coaching program in July and August 2010. With the new skills that I learned with Michael, I was able to seduce one of the “most wanted” girls in my social group right at the end of the month long workshop! She is beautiful and very smart. After starting out as “Friends with Benefits” now she is my girlfriend, so I wanted to keep the details private. Sorry, guys. Now you know why you have not seen me out …

People who benefit the most from this workshop are the women who are dating Michael’s students. That is because we learn how to become that guy that women really want. Bring a notebook and take very good notes on what he says!

Ron E.

41, Washington, DC

Here are some more things you will learn in the seminar.

· Set and manage expectations so that you can have the types of relationships you want while being fair to the other person.

· Learn how to be use comedy and playful role-plays to build attraction. Utilize her responses to build up the conversation and keep it fresh and fun.

· What men and women REALLY want through open discussion. What you learn may really surprise you.

· Six conversational themes that will help you smoothly and playfully introduce edgy topics to the conversation in such a way that they say “I can’t believe I am talking about this!”

· Use your language to make a conversation or text messages generate chemistry and romantic tension.

· A quick technique to get “out of your own head” and become fully present so you can spontaneously and intuitively read people

· How to create new possibilities for pleasure and intimacy by identifying and freeing yourself from fear, guilt or shame that you may have been holding you back without you even realizing it.

What Michael teaches really works, use it!

I was skeptical at first, however I saw Michael out one night and decided to attend one of Michael’s weekend seminars and thought it was so powerful that I then signed up for his month long comprehensive coaching program …

The skills that Michael teaches can apply to many situations whether you are looking to pick up or lay the ground work for a long term relationship. Michael identified where I had been holding myself back (it wasn’t what I thought) and then I finally lost my virginity with a really cool woman I met when I wasn’t expecting it. Neither one of us was looking for a relationship but over time it basically became a relationship without us calling it that. We have been together now for over a year and a half now.

What Michael teaches really works, Use it! Thanks Michael. I’ll see you at your next seminar

Sean A.

23 year old grad student

What Michael teaches works for women as well as men

I’m in my mid 30s and just got out of an 8 years of marriage. I certainly wasn’t looking to date anyone seriously! Michael helped me write my online dating profile and gave me lots of good advice on how to set the expectations and boundaries for the types of relationships I was ready for at the time.

I ended up dating a wide variety of guys including a North African prince, a hot personal fitness trainer, and a sweet but hot 23 year-old “boy toy” who volunteered at a hospital… with complete honesty and openness to them about what my intentions were. So yes, it works for women as well as men.

Debbie D.

Washington, DC

You will also learn:

· How taking away the pressure and expectation of commitment can actually open up new possibilities for creating intimacy.

• Develop your voice so that it is smooth, sexy and captivating through specific drills and exercises.

• How to establish and defend your personal boundaries. Don’t get taken for granted or as a weak pushover.

· Understand how the meaning you attach to your past experiences can either limit or open up new possibilities. Break free of what was holding you back and put the past in the past so you have more choice to seek what you really want.

· Attract others to you like a magnet by actively being that person who conveys that they already have a happy fulfilling life.

• “How not to lose a guy/ girl in 10 days” – some tips on how to maintain a healthy relationship, don’t blow or sabotage another promising opportunity.

• How to keep the “spark” so that you continue to sustain an interesting and dynamic relationship over time.

· Attract others to you like a magnet when you Become that Guy or Girl who is fully present and irresistibly attractive, has self-acceptance and conveys an inviting acceptance of others.

· Free yourself from where you think a relationship with someone “should” go and instead be present and enjoy the moment.

Why Should I pay money to learn?

Men, how much money have you spent going out on dates – THIS MONTH ALONE – and still never really meeting a woman that you’re totally into? Women, how many times have you felt the pressure of expectations from a date and the drama that sometimes goes with bruised egos and hurt feelings? It is worth it?

As a certain former governor would say

You betcha!

It’s for a good cause

Some weekend seminars are priced as high as $3,000, even a one day and night class can cost hundreds of dollars, however Michael wants to get his message out there in a way that anyone can afford to pay. So he is offering this at as a charity benefit for a special cause right that is near to his own heart or should we say gut on the eve of Valentine’s Day.

For over 10 years Michael struggled with Ulcerative Colitis, with symptoms that ranged from unpleasant and embarrassing to even being hospitalized a few times. However after being on the verge of surgery a year ago, he has now recovered and considers himself CURED, something that is not yet recognized by most doctors as possible in the field after combining several treatment options. Now he is healthy and wants to further the cause of awareness and the search for effective treatment options. So he is offering this seminar for charitable donations, a minimum donation of $20. All proceeds after expenses will be donated to charities such as the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation of America*.

So sign up today, space is limited for this unique opportunity. Location will be in NW DC in the Adams Morgan / U Street NW area and will be sent to attendees closer to the event date.

(*Note: Neither Michael nor this event is directly affiliated with or a representative of the organization.)

About Michael

Michael Hurst is a dating consultant in Washington, DC, author and speaker. Your Executive coach for your dating life. Michael first discovered the men’s dating education Community or Pickup Artist Community (PUA) back in 1999 and has been professionally coaching mostly men and some women for the last couple of years. Michael has lead over 30 seminar workshops in the last few years. He is regarded as one of the foremost experts in recognizing and rapidly increasing sexual attraction and fostering relationships that develop organically. He has been a speaker at several national dating conferences across the U.S. Recently Michael Hurst appeared as a guest on the Jellyvision show.

Michael is the author of the book “Become That Guy: Become Irresistibly Attractive” a comprehensive resource toward dating and self-development for men. When you become that guy who is irresistibly attractive you can be powerfully direct and authentic, secure that you can have the kinds of relationships that you really want. As he wrote the book and got feedback from women, Michael realized that most of the concepts that he teaches to men also were helpful to women and has since started coaching some women as well as men. A book for women is forthcoming in the next year.

Michael blends his personal experience and experience coaching others with almost 10 years of experience in public speaking, sales and marketing, Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) and Handwriting Analysis. Go to his website http://www.becomethatguy.com for more information about his coaching, seminars and to read free articles and field reports of his adventures.

Guest Teachers:
* A dance teacher, pilates or yoga instructor teaching both men & women how to walk sexy and carry yourself in a confident manner with good posture. Ladies feel free to bring your heels with you or just practice in your sneakers. (about 10 min.)
* Comedians and improve instructors will be talking about how to use comedy to break the ice in a relationship (about 10 min.)

* Fashion tips from a fashion expert for being professional, casual and attractive.

When women squirt: use moisture-proof sex blankets to protect your sheets

Become That Guy — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 17:44:19 +0000

Women who squirt a lot during orgasm. I have recently run into this problem which is kind of a cool one to have, although it has caused me to do a lot more laundry, something I usually try to avoid. So after asking several women I know I found out about this. Below is the product description and picture from the website.

Fascinator Throes by Liberator

Moisture-proof sex blankets

Soft silky blankets, clearly the reason for this picture.

One side is an extraordinarily soft surface, the other is silky satin, making it a reversible, versatile, skin-tillating sex-scape. An inner moisture barrier ensures your bedding stays spotless. Toss it on top of sheets, sofas and fancy home furnishings that you want to shield from your throes of passion. Machine washable. Available in Shag or Microfiber. (4 X 5 ft.)

Fascinator Throes by Liberator: Moisture-proof sex blankets

Text Message seminar in DC: March 29

Become That Guy — Tue, 27 Mar 2012 21:48:27 +0000

I will be having another one of my text message seminars on March 29 in the DuPont Circle area of Washington, DC.

Have you ever met someone, hit it

off but then were never able to

meet again?

Or maybe you do meet up for a date but you can’t get the same sexual chemistry and attraction that you had the first time you met.

For those of you who have attended my other seminars and read my stories this is a classic review and extension of how I use text messages to rapidly build upon and bridge initial attraction until we can meet for sex. Oftentimes this is the same night I met them, or it is no longer a question of if, only when. Based on the live seminar, this webinar uses real life examples to show you how to bridge the gap between first meeting her or first contact from online dating to meeting up with her for sex.

At this seminar you will learn how to:

• Actively Screen and test (qualify) for what you want during the initial meeting. Avoid common mistakes that could let the conversation die instead of the two of you getting it on.

• Use text messages to follow-up with her in such a way that you continue the conversation rather than have an abrupt break before calling or texting her in the future.

• Learn how to smoothly and playfully introduce sex to the conversation within the first few minutes of meeting her, so that she says “I can’t believe I’m talking about this even though I just met you.”

• Plant the seeds for future events during the initial meeting and through your text conversations so that it seems like the two of you have already had fun before you have met each other.

• How to actively use NLP in text messages and how to use text messages to easily learn this powerful yet frequently misunderstood collection of persuasive language techniques.

• Demonstrate that you are actively speaking the same language to her. A few simple tips will allow you to lead her to push the limits to be more sexual with her text messages.

• Use text messages to increase the likelihood that she will answer your call or meet you in person.

• Build solid rapport the first time you meet them – in person or online so that she comes over to your house that night, while the chemistry is still there rather than trying to wait for another day.

RSVP now for the text game seminar to reserve your place, space is limited for this FREE webinar due to software constraints so reserve your spot now!

Here’s past attendees are saying about the Text Message seminar / webinar

This was very well organized, taught and put together. Michael did an excellent job of presenting himself and the content. Texting, being a relatively new thing, is something that has been embraced by a very LARGE amount of women, and many use it to communicate exclusively. It is imperative that you are with the ‘in’ crowd and know how to text properly.Great seminar! One of the best I’ve been to yet. Great job Michael!

Alex Q.

What I liked best about this seminar was that Michael demonstrated everything he did using real life examples and explained what he did step by step. It was very helpful to learn not only know what to say, but his reasoning and way of reading and responding to what she said. Now that I know what to do and why to do it I can create my own messages and respond to what she has to say in a way that feels genuine and authentic while also being effective.Joe W.

See real life examples like these captured off an iphone and also mirrored live.

This course was extremely valuable for learning text messaging as an effective way to keep things going with a woman and arrange a day 2. And it was also valuable because I always used to feel that I run out of things to talk about and I saw how I could use text messaging as a way to practice my game. Since you have a moment to think before you send a text message back I saw this as a great way to practice becoming a better conversationalist.Matt H.

RSVP today for Text Game Seminar

to reserve your place, space is limited for this seminar so reserve your spot now! Information will be sent to those who register.

About Michael

Michael Hurst is a dating consultant in Washington, DC, author and speaker. Michael first discovered the men’s dating education Community or Pickup Artist Community (PUA) back in 1999 and has been professionally coaching mostly men and some women for the last couple of years. He has been a speaker at several national dating conferences across the U.S. including the World Pickup Artist Summit in Hollywood and the recent Global Pickup Conference in Washington, DC Recently Michael Hurst appeared as a guest on the .

Seminar at speed dating event Wed March 28

Become That Guy — Tue, 27 Mar 2012 18:54:35 +0000

Speaking at Speed dating event Wednesday March 28 7:00 pm at dirty martini: http://notjustanothersinglesmixer.eventbrite.com

America’s War on Sex

Become That Guy — Sun, 25 Mar 2012 05:12:14 +0000

This is interesting and very relevant to sexuality in that the war on sexuality is a strong contributing factor in why men and women have feelings of guilt towards sex. It is a reason why many of the hangups that get in the way of men going for what they want with women or acting weird about it in some way or another.

America’s War on Sex: Marty Klein

Speed Dating event: I will be speaking at March 28 in DC

Become That Guy — Sat, 11 Feb 2012 21:09:29 +0000

I will be giving a 30 minute talk to start this upcoming speed dating event: Not just another dating game Wednesday March 28 from 7:00 – 8:30. Signup here for this event Not just another dating game

Not Just Another Dating Game!

Wednesday, March 28, 2012 from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM (ET)

Washington, DC

Event Details

Join us at Washington DC’s hotest spot the ”Dirty Martini” and be a part of the Best Speed Dating Event in town, meet young attractive professionals who live and work in the DC area. Slots are going fast so reserve your seat today.

The speed dating event will feature a 30 minute group session by Dating Coach Micheal Hurst, who will offer dating tips plus details on his new book that is sure to excel your dating experience.

Event will start 7:00pm sharp so arrive 20 minutes early to complete registeration. This event is designed to connect attractive young professionals and improve your dating life, so dress to impress.

Meet someone new and learn successful dating techniques all in one night. The first 10 people who signup will receive a free gift at registeration.

*Event will start on time, please arrive 20 minutes early. There are no refunds for this event, all sales are final.

Meet Dating Coach – Michael Hurst

Michael Hurst is a dating coach, author and speaker based in
Washington, DC. His book Become That Guy: Become Irresistibly
Attractive is a comprehensive resource for dating and
self-development. Starting in high school Michael made a conscious
effort to figure out what it took to become better when it comes to
meeting women. While in college he discovered the early stages of the
men’s dating movement also sometimes referred to as Pickup Artist
which helped him develop more power and choice in his dating life with
women.

Over the years he has developed his system and discovered that the
same approach has also been helpful to women as well as men. In
addition to his personal experience with women and coaching others to
be successful with women Michael has also developed his experience
through jobs and training in sales, public speaking and personal
development including Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP) and
Handwriting Analysis. His new book “Become That Guy” is a
comprehensive resource toward dating and self-development based on
over 11 years of experience in the Pickup Artist/men’s self
development community.

The phrase “Become That Guy” refers to becoming the kind of guy who is
naturally attractive to women. Many of the same principles apply to
women as well. Learning to become more attractive is about more than
just knowing what to do or say in a given situation. It is about
creating a strong set of beliefs about oneself and an identity that
makes him or her attractive. While specific skills are also helpful to
learn, they are much more powerful when they are coming from a place
of core learning and change. Instead of being a person who recites
specific lines, you become the person who is attractive at the core.

He has coached men who were virgins have sex for the first time, and
find their first girlfriend. He has also helped men who have divorced
and taken some time off from dating to get back into the game. Having
at one time struggled, Michael understands the kind of mistakes most
men make, and the obstacles that stand in the way of their success. In
addition to helping men identify and overcome what is holding them
back with women, Michael also helps men recognize what they already
have going for them, both in life and with women. Oftentimes
recognizing how you are already successful and building upon those
strengths is the key to having breakthrough success.

While he is well versed in many different methods of persuasion
psychology, Michael has no “method” to teach specifically. In addition
to helping men identify and overcome what is holding them back with
women, Michael also helps men recognize what they already have going
for them, both in life and with women. Oftentimes recognizing how you
are already successful and building upon those strengths is the key to
having breakthrough success. He believes in teaching skills and
beliefs that are tailored to each client’s individual needs. This
allows his students to be genuine in their interactions with women and
develop empowering skills and beliefs that extend beyond dating with
women.

He coaches both through seminar workshops, “infield” at shops, bars
and other places and one-on-one over the phone. Michael has conducted
seminars on a wide range of dating and sex related topics in addition
to workshops that work on transforming personal beliefs and building
social skills. Infield coaching sessions allow students to learn by
observing and doing. This helps to learn more rapidly and also get
immediate feedback on what they are doing right and where they can
improve in their interactions with women. Private one on one sessions
by phone and in person allow Michael to get to know the client
personally and further tailor what he teaches to each man’s unique
personality and style.

Michael was a speaker at the 2010 PUA World Summit in Los Angeles, the World’s Largest convention for men’s dating and “pickup artists” andat the Global Pickup Conference in Washington, DC in January 2011. Inaddition to his own seminar and coaching business he also runs the DCDating Coach Meetup in Washington, DC . While his coaching has beengeared toward men meeting women, seminar courses and a book for women will be coming soon.

What Older women want with younger men: A conversation with a self-described cougar who would seduce me

Become That Guy — Sat, 11 Feb 2012 18:09:57 +0000

Over the years I have had several experiences with women that were a little older than me and I thought about writing some of these down since I have gotten many questions relating to this topic recently. I have had many relationships such as these over the years, the first being a several month fling with a 41 year old women when I was 24 and becoming a more common trend over the last year or so now that I am in my early 30s. Over the last few years while continuing to be with women in their 20s, I have discovered women that are in their 30s and 40s, many of which are now divorced. Just the other day I had a conversation with a woman who found me on the online community Fetlife a few weeks ago and we have been emailing back and forth since she was coming to town the next weekend. Fetlife is kind of like Facebook for kinky people into the alternative sexuality scene.

I’ll call her Sexy Cougar, which by the way she fully embraces the moniker of cougar, something that I have found with many women in their 40s that I have met. They are unashamed and seem to embrace the power of choice and their ability to seduce men who are younger that they are attracted to. She is a busy executive in her mid 40s with two kids that will be visiting the area in a week and wants to meet up with me while she is doing a photo shoot so she can have some fetish pictures. She is very intrigued by the pickup artist coaching and erotic story writing that I do and there were some interesting points that she made in the conversation I had with her.

“I like to fit in with men that are younger. Younger men that are just getting out of grad school are some of the best at understanding older women. Men that are 26 and up want to connect more. 26 – 30 is my target that I’m looking for with guys right now.” She went on to say, it is an entirely different world than when she was in college. People are not getting married at 20 anymore, some are even having group sex in college like it was nothing. My life is very complicated and I don’t have peace. I have a daughter to take care of and I adopted a special needs child. I have sex as my escape, my outlet in my life. Some women have knitting or book clubs and I have sex. I prefer to have a steady partner in an open relationship, because sex gets better when you get to know someone.

She said she is looking for this deep connection with our conversation when we meet. She is hoping to feel that natural spark for me that doesn’t happen that often. She told me I was very smart about how I was communicating with her, ”you lead the way a little bit and then encouraged me to write and do more.” She went on to say “When I do things like write erotica I’m doing something for myself, getting myself turned on.”

I told her that I do that deliberately so that she will have more investment in the process because ultimately all seduction is self-seduction, a person can be lead and guided on their own process of lust and adventure.

After we got off the phone she sent me this text message: I want … to be before you … looking up at you … into your eyes … as we speak.

Other conversations that I will relay soon include

- Those with a lawyer in her 40s who I have been dating who is newly divorced and appreciates the higher sex drive and energy to get out and do things that she finds in a younger man.

- More detail on the story of the woman who was in her early 40s when I was 24, who was at first a little awkward about the scenario, but later came to embrace it as she got approval from friends. We ended up dating for 3 months and the next guy she met she ended up getting married and having kids with.

- A woman in her late 40s that I met about 6 months ago a management consultant who runs in triathlons who laughed about the term cougar and seemed quite comfortable with herself including taking me out to a Moby concert.

Michael Hurst to speak at Global Pickup Artist Conference March 23 – 25 in Washington, DC

Become That Guy — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 20:28:29 +0000

Michael Hurst, dating coach and author of the book Become That Guy: Become Irresistibly Attractive will speak at

The Global Pickup Conference, Washington DC During The Weekend Of March 23th – 25th, 2012 along with several other top speakers.

About The Global Pick Up Conference

The Global Pick Up Conference is the best proven course that teaches guys around the world how to approach, build high value relationships, seduce, and lay the hottest women on the planet by bringing together the best Leaders in the Seduction Community to one place, for an ultra special event.

Our Speakers will even the playing field and teach guys like yourself how to show women their best selves and how to create a lifestyle in which women will naturally gravitate towards.

At the door Ticket Prices are $999.

INCLUDED WITH ADMISSION

2 Days Of In Class Training

1 Full Day Infield Training

100 Page Routine Manual (Worth Over $100)

VIP Forum Access

VIP Video Vault Access

Over 10 Hours of Video Infield & Training Footage (Worth Over $300)

Free Podcast Subscription

FREE DC Guide

FREE Raffle Ticket

We will be raffling off FREE

Products & Training Throughout the conference.

Discounts on Hotels & Food

And Much More…

Plus Your Satisfaction is Guaranteed!

Tickets are only $399 as part of a discounted special we are running. BUY TICKET NOW

What’s included in your ticket:

When you come to the Global Pickup Conference, you will get the best combination of multi-mentor instruction, you will get one day of instruction, in the field, with the guru’s!

These are the top pick up artists and dating coaches from America, Europe, and Asia!

You will be learning from PUA’s featured in Playboy, Men’s Health, Hustler, and other mainstream media.

Vince “Hollywood” Kelvin
Global NLP and Self-Empowerment Expert for a Truly Fulfilling Social, Sex, and Love Life!

Brad P.
The top pickup artist in the world and was voted #1 Pickup Artist for 2008.

Mehow
The innovator of instant attraction and infield insider. Rated one of the worlds best PUA’s.

David Wygant
The inspiration for the movie “Hitch”. Voted the most natural guru out there.

Erika Awakening
Holistic Life Coach who will empower you in all areas of your life: dating, and self-esteem.

Brother James
His philosophy revolves around getting back to the basics. simplify the process!

John Keegan
John’s vision of a life that transcends social barriers and personal boundaries.

Sasha Daygame
Mystery’s first wing and the best day gamer in the world. He is also an authority on pickup comedy.

(-)ydro
The true sources for all of web, and text game. He is a true master of text based game.

For More Info www.kingsofpickup.com

(v)aven
Has helped hundreds of guys through his transformation story and coaching.

Become That Guy - DC Dating Coach | Dating Advice | Pickup Artist | PUA

Porn That Women Like: Why Does It Make Men So Uncomfortable?

Porn That Women Like: Why Does It Make Men So Uncomfortable?

What Women Want: Porn and the Frontier of Female Sexuality

Seduction de Mayo – May 5 – 6 day and night bootcamp

Click here to sign up now!

DC Dating Conference June 23 benefit for Crohn’s and Colitis

DC Dating Conference Charity fundraiser

Have you often gotten

conflicting pieces of

advice when it comes to dating?

Saturday June 23, 2012 at noon in Washington, DC – location will be sent to attendees

Sign up here for DC Dating Conference

What Michael teaches works for women as well as men

When women squirt: use moisture-proof sex blankets to protect your sheets

Fascinator Throes by Liberator

Moisture-proof sex blankets

Fascinator Throes by Liberator: Moisture-proof sex blankets

Text Message seminar in DC: March 29

Have you ever met someone, hit it

off but then were never able to

meet again?

Or maybe you do meet up for a date but you can’t get the same sexual chemistry and attraction that you had the first time you met.

At this seminar you will learn how to:

See real life examples like these captured off an iphone and also mirrored live.

RSVP today for Text Game Seminar

to reserve your place, space is limited for this seminar so reserve your spot now! Information will be sent to those who register.

About Michael

Seminar at speed dating event Wed March 28

America’s War on Sex

Speed Dating event: I will be speaking at March 28 in DC

Not Just Another Dating Game!

Wednesday, March 28, 2012 from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM (ET)

Washington, DC

Ticket Information

Event Details

Meet Dating Coach – Michael Hurst

What Older women want with younger men: A conversation with a self-described cougar who would seduce me

Other conversations that I will relay soon include

Michael Hurst to speak at Global Pickup Artist Conference March 23 – 25 in Washington, DC

About The Global Pick Up Conference